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Faith in Humanity

Sometimes my faith in humanity wavers. We went to Denver this past week to enjoy some time with my family while Josh was in Vegas for work. It was so nice to not have to catch another flight and shell out an extra $300 per person to make it to Wyoming, and it was awesome that I have such a kind family that they're willing to drive 6.5 hours to come see our kids, but in the general public sometimes I just don't know what's wrong with people. When we wrangled all our luggage (think 2 car seats, 3 carry ons, 2 huge suitcases and a double stroller with two kids) we made it to the car rental wait station and did our best to keep the (eh hem non napping) kids happy during a 20 minute wait. The tiny bus finally made it and what did people do? Push in front of us rather than wait in line. By the time we got on the bus it was standing room only. Did anyone offer their seat to me and Anias? Nope. They were fine cooing at him, but to actually give up comfort? Nope.

This is so ridiculous! Why on earth would you, as an able-bodied person, sit on your buns while a mother holding a 7 month old was thrust back and forth in front of you. Honestly. The bus slammed its brakes to avoid a crazy driver and I was this close to falling.  I wanted to accuse them. I wanted to tell them if they can't be gracious to our baby not to talk to him (petty, I know). Instead we looked at the bright side. Josh was the first one off the bus and got our car first. The people who cut us off, and yes there were multiple, enough to fill and entire bus even, were still waiting when we drove off. All's well that ends well, but if you see someone with two babies, 5 bags, and a stroller please take 2 minutes to help them out. They will really really appreciate it.

Since I got pregnant with Eli I've noticed how inconsiderate I was. Maybe you don't know what it's like until you're there. It's a good reminder for myself too. I can surely help others more. We all can.

On the plus side. the bus driver helped me with all the luggage. The car rental attendant upgraded us to the last SUV for free. We got to spend 7 full days with people we love and Eli loved his time with his cousins and aunts and uncles and grandparents. Life is still good.


Anias: Week 34

I say "hi" to everyone and fake cough when I want your attention. I try to put straws into cups and although I initially liked playing with ice, it made me mad when my hands got cold. I love swimming and looked so cute in my shark suit. I cry when Eli cries.

Anias: Week 35

I turned 8 months old this week and helped mom celebrate her first mother's day as a mom of TWO! I had my first trip to the zoo and saw my first waterfall. I got quite spoiled while in Colorado and fully expect to sleep with mom all the time.

Eli

Eli's "Goose", a flower for Mother's Day,  a gorilla depicting me on vacation

When asked to give hugs and kisses goodbye, I surprised my whole family by giving Raegan a 20 second kiss on the lips. I love to dig in the park and I finally met my goal that will let me go to school! Mom's going to sign me up as soon as we get home. I went to the splash park, but my favorite part of the trip was vacuuming. I told mom I missed my grandma Bees "the one with the farm!". I made up a song that goes "What's wrong with baby??" complete with piano chords. I call water falls water mountains and coke "coconuts".

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